Tuesday 3 April 2012

Alone

It's really a surreal experience writing knowing fully well that no one is reading. But I still do it. Why? I'm not entirely sure but will try to explain.

Reason 1. Documenting Tara's experiences for her to read when she is older. As an adult whatever her life experiences, she will realize that she has experienced her Mum's unconditional love, through the daily grind of life and its many challenges. I LOVE YOU TARA. MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE..EVER..You have taken my human experience to a whole new level.

Reason 2. Writing is therapeutic. It is like talking aloud to someone non judgemental. Many of life's difficult times are made palatable by writing things down, and breaking them into bite sized issues that can then be addressed one by one. Sometimes this introspection throws up a life lesson that can be enriching.

Reason 3. Just as the body needs a bit of exercise everyday, so does the mind. Writing is like a lovely cat stretch for the brain.

Reason 4. It's like looking for life in our galaxy. Am I alone?  Or is there someone out there who has visited my world. Someday...someone may actually read my thoughts and leave me a comment or just say hello. It would make me all fuzzy and happy if that happened. Don't know why :-)

I don't think my life experiences mean anything to anyone else. Though I do have some golden tips on certain subjects that might prove useful to many Mums out there.

Until then, I float around with my thoughts in my little world..Alone.

5 comments:

  1. You've made such an effort to visit my blog and post such wonderful comments. I've been so wrapped up in my own world lately that I haven't been around online much to return the favour.

    You're a fantastic writer, and you have a reader here :)

    If you want to get your blog 'out there', there are a few ways to do that. Try signing up for Brit Mums (http://www.britmums.com/) and joining a few groups. You'll have readers in no time :) xoxoxo

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    1. I was right. Your visit has indeed left me all fuzzy and happy. :-)

      THANK YOU LARA FOR VISITING! You are most welcome to wander around the sometimes busy, sometimes dull corridors of my mind!

      Cheers!
      Ash

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    2. Thank you Lara, Thank you Sarah. Nice to meet you too! I have this overwhelming need to tidy up my home...as if I have visitors and I'm not prepared. :-) But you are most welcome...anytime.

      I am not entirely new to blogging having started last year. But all I know is to write on it. What I am not, is tech savvy. I am trying desperately now to 'join' both your blogs but don't know how?? Will hopefully figure it out as I did the Britmums one..fingers crossed.

      Love
      Ash

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  2. Hellooooooo!! Lara was right about you joining BritMums and getting more readers! I've come over from there to say hello and have a read. Nice to meet you! Sarah x

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    1. Thank you Lara, Thank you Sarah. Nice to meet you too! I have this overwhelming need to tidy up my home...as if I have visitors and I'm not prepared. :-) But you are most welcome...anytime.

      I am not entirely new to blogging having started last year. But all I know is to write on it. What I am not, is tech savvy. I am trying desperately now to 'join' both your blogs but don't know how?? Will hopefully figure it out as I did the Britmums one..fingers crossed.

      Love
      Ash

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