Hello…hello…hello!
How are you? (I say to me)
I’m alive, and grateful. But I think the name they gave it, is too tame to address the full scale of what it really is. (I replied)
I have regained my memory. Over the last one year, from the end of October 2021 to the present, my memory went from zero, to partial, and now it’s almost fully restored. With everything else that I battled, the memory loss is ranked up there. Mainly because it robbed me of my sense of self, my dignity and left me vulnerable and exposed, in the hands of people who I barely trusted.
As I was doing some unrelated work today, another curtain lifted off my brain, and I had a surge of emotion, like the spine chilling feeling you might get if you just remembered that you forgot your baby in the park. Just to clarify, Ive never forgotten Tara or anyone else in the park. I had a blog, and I needed to see it now! It had disappeared from gGoogle and nothing came up on the search. So I asked Google how to find my blog. Within minutes I found it, and saw the reassuring, familiar space where I share my thoughts without any hesitation. My space. My friend who has been a better friend than people who have been inhabiting my world.
Where to start?
October 2021, when the evil Delta variant was coming to an end, the Government announced that all restrictions, mandates and distancing would stop immediately. What a terrible, terrible decision. As a family we had been very careful so far. We followed all the rules, took care to protect ourselves and equally important, to protect others. As soon as Tara’s school dropped the measures they had in place, within days Tara brought Covid home.
She suffered desperately for 10 days, her body weak from a bout of Bronchitis a few weeks before and possibly flu. It was a no brainer for me to do whatever I could to help Tara who had collapsed with the excruciating pain the covid virus inflicted on her joints. This was in addition to all the text book symptoms of the prevailing variant- the dreaded Delta, which had devoured many of my extended family members in large numbers. As I looked after her, I didn’t suffer any of the symptoms, except a very low grade fever that rumbled on for a few weeks. Tara had repeatedly returned positive tests, but The Husband and I never showed a positive test.
The day before school opened after the half-term break, I was feeling terrible, in an ominous sort of way. We all went to the testing centre and tested again one day before school started after the half term break, and all tests were negative.
Later that night I had a strange feeling of foreboding so I called out to The Husband . Tara rushed in too. I tried to tell The Husband that I was sinking and something was seriously wrong. He was pre-occupied and said I was probably tired and would be fine. I insisted that something was different and did not feel right. He lost his patience and literally barked at me, “What do you want me to do? What do you want? Should I call an ambulance?” Tara looked up angrily at her father and muttered. I felt muddled in my head and backed off, saying there was no need to do anything, and I would just go to sleep.
The next morning Tara who had made a full recovery returned to school, The Husband was back at work. After I dropped Tara off, and came back home, a strange sensation took over and I collapsed. Just like that. I changed into my night clothes and thought that I needed to rest after a particularly difficult few weeks. I regained my composure and tried to call The Husband who couldn’t be reached. I hesitantly called the emergency line. My voice sounded alien, I couldn’t breathe and I was feeling light headed as my heart felt it would race out of my body. The person on the line, said that I should get to the Hospital Emergency department immediately. I asked for an ambulance, but the waiting time was around 25 hours or so. Even after that there was no room at the hospital. That day a few people died outside the emergency department, on the floor. I stayed calm, and tried to ring my doctor.
The doctor’s surgery was closed for any walk-ins. After several attempts, miraculously someone answered the phone. I could barely speak as I gasped for air, and barely made any sense as I asked to see someone for help. After a lot of discussion a doctor agreed to see me later that day, but only if I had a negative covid test. Again, miraculously I happened to have a negative test from the day before. I clutched it in my hand, and stumbled out of the front door and into my car.
I was going to die. But I was not going without a fight. I drove in a zen like state, it was late morning, there was absolutely no traffic on the roads, no one -at least that’s how I remember it. I also remember driving through green lights without stopping. I made it to the doctor’s surgery gates which were closed and chains wound around the bars. There were all kinds of warning signs, with seemingly miles of yellow warning tapes festooning the whole place. It looked spooky as there was no one in sight. It was raining and every door was closed. I left my car on the path, stumbled out, and with one final effort pushed the gates which opened with a big enough gap for me to go through. I approached a marked zone. I can’t remember if it was called the yellow zone or a hot zone. Something like that. In the rain I crumpled into a heap. A young doctor in full protective gear just about made it to catch me as I went down. I don’t remember much after that, except that he checked me for my heart rate, breathing and other vital signs and I heard him say that I needed to be in the Hospital. I was tired and explained that there was no room for me there.
He appeared very concerned and said that I needed to get there as soon as I could. He was kind, looked a bit nervous but seemed extremely competent as he rummaged around his brain and the computer to find me any medication that could help. This was before the present time when various medicines like Paxlovid, and other anti-virals that are now available, weren’t there. He settled for Doxycycline which he said was not ideal but it did sometimes offer anti viral benefits. For all intents and purposes it looked as if Covid had invaded me recently and had started a series of events in my body that were called Long Covid.
He said my lungs didn’t sound good, and my oxygen levels were dipping. My heart meanwhile was doing its own thing, wildly beating at around 269 beats per minute at one point. He said again I should go to hospital and if the oxygen dipped again to call an ambulance. I had stabilised a bit, thanked him and drove back home. I went to bed and fell asleep.
I still had to do the school pick up, so I of course set the alarm for pick up time. I’ll be honest, I don’t remember if i did the school run that day, because the biggest bomb was about to fall. I lost my memory.
Don’t call it Long Covid. That’s too tame a name for this beast I had to ride for the next one year.
